Being a stay at home mom is an unpaid job. Agree or disagree? 🫢 #shorts

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Being a stay at home mom is an unpaid job. Agree or disagree? 🫢 #shorts

113 thoughts on “Being a stay at home mom is an unpaid job. Agree or disagree? 🫢 #shorts

  1. Nanny, cook, cleaner, teacher. If you paid someone else to do that it would be a lot of money.

    1. New Zealand dollars. However overtime adds up. To me it feels like at work I’m doing four jobs instead of one. Always short staffed etc…tou get my gist. Blessings to all.

  2. Dad works to pay Mom for taking care of the kids lol 😆 Stay-at-home parents are working too! It’s called teamwork!

    1. There doing something they chose to do and knew they would have to do. They are not working at all. And it is not hard being a stay at home mother

    2. ​@deedyif being a stay at home mom isnt a job then why do working moms have to pay someone to watch there kid

  3. I believe being home is a full time job with many different hats. Bills are paid, food in the house and everyone is set with their needs, enjoy the rest. My husband won’t buy himself anything so I do it with his money. ❤

    1. Exactly. And my husband always makes sure i have what i want and need. Its technically our money now considering he needs me to be a sahm to our boy or suffer paying high child care costs because even if i qorked i wouldnt make enough to contribut that much to child care and house hold and its usually men coming home cooking and cleaning. Its cheaper and easier this way.

    1. ​@JHdoes your job wake you up at 2 am crying because it peed the bed and needs a bath and change of sheets?

    2. I think it’s equally hard it their own ways. Honestly. Stay at home parents do so much. But imagine working parents coming home after a long exhausting day. And sometimes the kids aren’t even down for sleep or nap. Like you’ll be coming home to a loud house.
      At least in my situation. I’ve done both. But I’d still rather be a stay at home mom. With my two kids.

    3. ​@no name does your job give u a 2 hour nap time everyday? Because any kid ive watched under like 3 does. And any kid over like 4 just doesnt really need that much supervision.

      Stay at home parenting isnt easy work, but it damn sure aint a hard days work in the sun.

    1. Like seriously you don’t get paid or never should get paid to look after your kids you chose to have them no one else did

    2. ​@Goddzyou clearly missed the point entirely. the point being a mom, teacher, cleaner, etc all in one is really hard work, especially if you’re a SAHM and doing it by yourself.. and if it was a job, you’d definitely make good money. no one said that you SHOULD get paid for doing so.. but go off lol

    3. ​@alyssa 🐾you actually should get paid for all that labor. If men want families and not pay for child care he has to onvest int he woman or person taking care of his offspring and or home.

  4. As a husband to a stay at home mom, I’m grateful for her hard work taking care of our 4 kids. She can buy me presents with OUR money anytime. I’m just grateful someone is thinking about me.

    1. Love your comment! Its nice to see another man that feels the same as my husband of 35 years and 4 youngins!

  5. Yes dad works at a job and earns money for our family. Mom is the accountant, child care, taxi, housekeeper, laundry washer, cook…… We share in duties for the house and share the money. We are a team.

  6. Dad is a true good ol American dad, a rare breed these days 👍 God bless dad and the family…

    1. What is wrong with you? 😂 if women want a job whilst with their husband that is fine and so is her staying at home. The fact you only believe women should stay at home whilst the dad works is concerning. Plus what if there are two moms? Your rule doesn’t apply. And then same for a blended family, care is given by four parents, your rule doesn’t apply. Please stop.

  7. It is the most noble and important job and I’m sure your hubby will agree. Of course, we can’t raise our kids on love alone, and this is why a good husband and wife team is necessary. She’ll get it when she gets older. I hope no stay at home parent feels any less for not having a paycheck because there are some serious labor violations and unpaid wages and bonuses that should be brought into consideration 😅

    1. Yaaa where’s your present for your dad??????😂😂😂😂😂😂😂it’s father’s day. Not husband day!!!!!! Lolol

    2. Lol yep I bet the children’s names are gonna be on that card as well. They think their allowance is very real when they earn it but you didn’t see them chipping in.

  8. Let’s not forget it’s also a job itself being a stay at home mom I was working and taking care of my 3 kids for a couple month while my wife worked nights and I gained a whole new perspective on how much she did and it’s not just his money when you’re married it’s their money

  9. Us stay at home parents get paid with the hugs, kisses, laughter and memories. 💕. Wouldn’t have it any other way.

  10. Negative work…no one notices until it’s not done!!! Sahm are priceless!! Underappreciated, but please know how important you are!!! Knowing your kids are safe and who and what are around them is a blessing to be able to do. Thank you hardworking daddies to make it possible!!! Thank you sahm for the sacrifice and hard work!!!

    1. Right? No one ever says “thanks for keeping our house clean and cooking all our meals..ect..but if it’s not done I definitely hear about it..

  11. In my mind I just subtract from daddies pay what would have been paid in daycare costs, home cleaning etc. And that’s what I make. 😂 but no we both earn that money, even if I stay home.

  12. Stay at home moms have the most important job in the world. I couldn’t even put a price on it.

    1. @Magooboth stay at home and a working mom is a sacrifice. No need to bring other mothers down. I’m a stay at home mom and it’s extremely hard.

    2. If you see bring a parent as a sacrifice, maybe you should not be a parent. For most of us it is a choice. So, if you made the choice to have children. You haven’t sacrificed anything. You’re not solving world hunger. You are taking care of the child you choose to have. So please spare me with working moms and stay at home moms sacrifice a lot.

    3. @Magoo okay negative Nancy stop assuming you know everyone’s life. 😂 the definition of sacrifice is “an act of giving up something valued for the sake of something else regarded as more important or worthy.” becoming a mom was a sacrifice on my body. I had an emergency C-section and 2 months postpartum I had to have an organ removed due to a pregnancy complication. That is a sacrifice. HALF of all pregnancies were unplanned so for most it was not a choice. No having children does not solve world hunger but it keeps the world going around. If everyone stopped populating, our world would come to an end.

  13. I said the same thing when I was little and my daddy corrected me real fast!!! He told me Mama had the hardest job!!! <3 I learned so much from that man!!

  14. Daddy doesn’t care where the money came from. he cares about the thought and effort put into the gift.

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